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REAL MEN & REAL FATHERS
What REAL Men Don't Do:
In today's world we have men who are often fatherless, other times with fathers, who go about without a clue as to what it is to be a man. We spend our time playing games, cracking sexual jokes, making all sorts of gestures, and spitting out meaningless sexual "one-liners". Is it any wonder women and Hollywood make the claims about men they do; that we are immature and stupid? Below is a list of things men should not be and do...
REAL MEN don't sit around playing video games all day long. REAL MEN grow-up and have more important things to do. REAL MEN don't spend hours of their lives on meaningless fantasies (like fantasy football). REAL MEN turn dreams into reality. REAL MEN don't physically, verbally, or mentally assault anyone or anything unless they have to in order to survive, or in order to maintain order once all other methods have failed. REAL MEN don't assert authority through violence. REAL MEN assert authority through wisdom, cunning, and observation; violence is for physical defense. REAL MEN don't back down from a confrontation, disagreement, or circumstance simply because it is the path of least resistance. REAL MEN have backbone! REAL MEN don't leave their children without a father. REAL MEN fulfill the obligations and duties of a father, teacher, and elder. REAL MEN don't wait for the calvary to come. REAL MEN form the calvary! REAL MEN don't bothering whining about circumstance. REAL MEN are problem-solvers rather than problem-sellers. REAL MEN don't contribute to the destruction of their community's beauty, structure, and values. REAL MEN find much more gratitude in building and improving rather than destroying!
Are you a REAL MAN, or a mindless, meaningless, menacing child-like man who is driven by that which he has been programmed and associated to be? Why do you do what you do? If you were to unexpectedly die tomorrow would you be satisfied with who you were and what you did? Why do you spend so much time doing what you do? Are you pursuing dreams, or waiting for the calvary? Why are you who you are? Do you realize there are those who know how to sell you more than products, but also your own worth, desires, decisions, and dreams? Do you truly believe those things which you are surrounded by, which you hear, which you see, which you feel, have no impact upon who you are and what you do?
If you are truly so gullible as to think your actions, decisions, physical drives, and thoughts are not so easily manipulated (and done so on a daily basis ALL DAY LONG) then why do the wealthy spend so much money on advertising in the hopes that what you see, hear, and feel will indeed influence your actions, decisions, physical drives, and thoughts?
It is in your best interest and the best of interest of society that you BE A REAL MAN, start thinking (even when it hurts), begin fighting (with your spirit), and get active to make an effective change for men (and society), as man. BE A REAL MAN!
Definition of Shared-Parenting- Shared parenting refers to a family arrangement in child custody or divorce settlements, in which the care of the children is equal, or more than substantially shared, between the biological parents.
Father's Rights & Shared-Parenting:
In today's society fathers often either alienate themselves from their children (for a variety of reasons), or they are alienated from them by the government for the profit of the large "cash-cow" political-social-economic complex. These two crimes against the youth are not only great economic generators, but they are also great socially destructive forces.
Like the four fundamental forces of the physical universe (gravity, electromagnetic, strong, and weak nuclear force), the four fundamental forces of the social universe are: family, government, commerce, and morality. When one or more of these social forces are taken away, attacked, or detached the whole structure crumbles into a chaotic form awaiting a new form (one that is dictating largely by the forces left within the social universe).
Fathers must learn to do their part in society; they must learn the to be dads!
What REAL Fathers Do:
REAL FATHERS never abandon their children, nor do they give children cause to have hatred for them due to their persistent and wrongful actions. REAL FATHERS refuse to backdown to the family law/custody system, but instead seek to reform it. REAL FATHERS love all of their offspring equally and feel thankful to be blessed with them, for they have no favoritism for them individually, according to gender, or position. REAL FATHERS stand-up for their right to reproduce. REAL FATHERS raise their children and provide for them the absolute best they can regardless of circumstance, hatred for others, or court order. REAL FATHERS advocate the sensible protection of all children, and also volunteer to do so (to ensure it is sensible)! REAL FATHERS (knowing the real world) refuse to advocate an imaginary world of happiness for children, yet shelter children from what is unnecessary for them to experience without guidance and proper protection. REAL FATHERS do not confuse over-protection with security, nor do they advocate or support such (knowing full well, such a stance is as deadly and dangerous as none at all). REAL FATHERS advocate and teach proper beliefs, morality, and standards to their children regardless of social, economic, and even governing pressure (real men fear no entity, ideology, or authority when it comes to what they stand for and believe in). REAL FATHERS advocate and strive for intellectual cunning and wisdom for themselves and their entire family; such men never accept what they are told or ordered to adhere to on the mere words, advice, standards, and principles of strangers. REAL MEN think for themselves, yet use wisdom, cunning, understanding, and focus when dealing with adversity or objectivty.
If you are a father who wants justice, is a victim of the system (or an evil other), wishes to begin living differently, or who has done his former (or current) spouse wrong, and you wish to talk... Email me at jeff@jeffranck.com, or visit one of the external links provided on this page. I will work with you and help you in any way I can (by the way, I will help mothers too). HERE WE ARE FOR FAMILY!
External Links for Shared-Parenting & Fathers' Rights:
American Coalition for Fathers & Children http://www.acfc.org/
No further links available at this time
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